The Power of Eight Minutes
- Scott Fullerton
- Aug 4
- 4 min read

“What if I told you that just eight minutes of intentional listening could make someone feel seen and change the entire culture of an LGBTQ business?”
Listening is like planting a seed in a garden: with just a drop of water, or a few minutes of real attention, it blossoms into trust and belonging. In today’s fast-paced business world, leaders often overlook the profound impact of intentional communication. But eight minutes of focused, empathetic listening can reduce anxiety, lift morale, and make people feel less alone.
In this post, we’ll explore how those small but mighty eight-minute conversations can transform your workplace, build a stronger LGBTQ brand, and elevate customer experience. You’ll walk away with practical tips, real-world stats, and inspiring insights that prove listening isn’t just good manners, it’s smart business.
“Eight Minutes That Build Belonging”
It may seem small, but eight minutes can be monumental. Psychologists and social researchers agree: brief, focused interactions create emotional safety. Simon Sinek, leadership expert, champions the idea that it doesn’t take hours to make someone feel heard. Just eight minutes of undivided attention signals to someone, "You matter."
This is especially critical for LGBTQ staff and customers who often carry invisible emotional loads. When a leader or peer listens with genuine interest, asking follow-up questions, mirroring emotions, and simply being present, it sends a clear message: "You’re not alone."
Tip: Schedule regular micro-check-ins with team members. Set aside eight uninterrupted minutes and ask, “How are you really feeling?” Then, just listen.
Stat: Employees who feel heard are 74% more effective in their roles.
Quote: “When people feel their voice matters, trust and commitment soar.” — HR Leaders at Mercer
“Staff Listening Ignites Innovation”
Your team knows what you don’t, and when they speak, magic happens. Listening to staff isn’t just about creating a feel-good culture; it’s about harnessing untapped innovation. Employees on the front lines often see the gaps in workflow, product issues, or emerging customer needs long before leadership does.
In LGBTQ-owned businesses, staff might identify inclusive messaging gaps or unaddressed accessibility needs that leadership may not notice. Listening helps these perspectives rise to the surface.
Tip: Host monthly listening circles where team members can share challenges and ideas in a safe, structured space.
Stat: 82% of employees say they have ideas to improve their company, but many never share them because they feel ignored.
Quote: “Listening to employees is essential to drive engagement, retention, and belonging.” —Go1 Blog
“Customer Listening Strengthens Brand Loyalty”
When you really listen, your customers feel recognized and they come back. In an era of performative allyship and rainbow-washing, LGBTQ consumers are craving authenticity. Listening is your secret weapon.
Whether it’s a comment on social media, a review, or an in-store conversation, how you respond matters. Even a short conversation can turn a casual buyer into a brand evangelist when they feel respected and understood.
Tip: Empower frontline staff with active listening skills: paraphrasing, asking open-ended questions, and validating emotions.
Stat: 96% of customers say customer experience is a key factor in brand loyalty.
Quote: “Listening platforms become fertile ground for real-time feedback that informs strategy.” —ThoughtExchange Blog
“Turning Eight Minutes into Organizational Change”
Micro-moments create macro impact, the key is follow-through. If you listen but don’t act, trust erodes. A successful listening culture includes visible follow-ups, accountability, and communication loops.
For LGBTQ businesses, where community, inclusivity, and transparency are cornerstones, following through on feedback is even more vital. It’s not enough to hear people; you must show them they’ve been heard.
Tip: After each listening session, jot down action items, share progress updates, and invite feedback on what you implemented.
Stat: 90% of employees stay longer at companies that gather and act on feedback.
Quote: “Employee listening is a business imperative, unlocking engagement and long-term success.” —Forbes Insights
“Why LGBTQ Businesses Should Prioritize Listening”
For queer-led brands, an inclusive culture isn’t optional, it’s foundational. Listening ensures every identity within your organization feels seen and supported. This is about intersectional belonging: recognizing that your team and customers bring a rich tapestry of identities that influence their needs.
Whether it’s honoring pronouns, addressing mental health, or creating physical safe spaces, it starts with listening. Every inclusive policy, program, and product begins with a question: "What do you need?"
Tip: Use inclusive language in all feedback channels. Ask, "How can we support your identity here?" and listen with no agenda.
Stat: Companies with highly engaged employees outperform others by 202% in shareholder returns.
Quote: “Employee engagement drives customer loyalty and every 1% increase in engagement yields a 0.4% lift in satisfaction.” —International Customer Service Report
Big Change Starts Small
It doesn’t take hours of conversation to make a difference. Just eight minutes of intentional listening can transform how someone feels, valued, supported, and empowered. For LGBTQ businesses and brands, listening is more than a strategy. It’s a lifeline.
By embedding these eight-minute moments into your daily rhythms, you foster trust, uncover innovation, and build true loyalty. So, open your ears, lead with heart, and let your business be the place where everyone, staff and customers alike, feels they belong.



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